Things Often Forgotten on a Wedding Day: A Fulshear Bride’s Guide to Remembering the Small Things
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When I started to write this blog, I couldn’t help but look back on my own wedding day, more than 13 years ago, and remember the things I forgot. As much as we all want to be perfect or at least remember everything so that all of our planning doesn’t go to waste, we can’t. Your wedding day is a celebration of love, laughter, and carefully crafted memories. But even with meticulous planning, there are some small but important details that brides often forget as they get swept up in the excitement of the big day.
Coming from my own wedding day experiences mixed in with the many weddings we’ve seen take place at Brandt 1910, a unique rustic wedding venue near Fulshear, Texas, here’s a helpful roundup of 10 things brides frequently overlook on their wedding day, plus solutions that will ensure you're fully prepared from sunrise to send-off.
Don’t Forget to Eat
With hairstylists curling updos, makeup artists perfecting your look, and photographers snapping every behind-the-scenes moment, it’s easy to forget to eat. Brides often tell us they get so busy in the lead-up to the ceremony that they skip breakfast or lunch altogether. By the time the vows are exchanged, they’re running on fumes.
Quick Tip
Plan ahead by packing easy-to-eat, energy-boosting snacks like granola bars, fresh fruit, or trail mix. Or better yet, schedule a light meal with your bridal party and have someone else bring the food so you don’t have to worry about it. Many brides who tie the knot at Brandt 1910 take advantage of our stunning bridal suite to enjoy lunch with their bridesmaids before the festivities.
✨Brandt 1910 Bonus: When you’re ready to eat, place an order with Marinis Empanada Kitchen in Wallis, Texas. They are renowned for their delicious sweet and savory dishes, are ready in under 15 minutes, and deliver right to Brandt 1910!
The Marriage License
You cannot legally tie the knot without a marriage license, yet this crucial document is often left at home in the hustle and bustle of the day. Every state has different requirements, and for brides near Fulshear, Texas, there are specific rules you’ll need to follow to get your license in Harris County, Fort Bend County, or Austin County.
How to Get a Marriage License in Texas
- Apply in Person: Both parties must visit the County Clerk’s office, bring a photo ID, and pay a small fee. You should do this a week before your wedding date, and you can do it at your closest County Clerk’s Office.
✨ Pro Tip: For local Katy, Sealy, Richmond, Rosenberg, Fulshear, and Greater Houston Area brides who are budget-conscious, Austin County offers a marriage license for only $22 when you take a Twogether Class! Harris County’s Marriage License fee is $81, Waller County’s is $71, and Fort Bend County’s is $71.
- Wait 72 Hours: There’s a three-day waiting period before you can actually get married
- Get Your License Signed by Your Officiant: This is the part that most couples (and officiants forget!
- Submit Your License: Most counties allow you to either mail or drop off your signed license in person
Once your officiant has signed the license, make sure you hand this document to someone reliable, like your maid of honor, or put it back with your belongings to keep it safe.
Jewelry and Accessories
This is what I forgot on my wedding day. My jewelry. I had picked out this gorgeous pearl necklace, which my mother was loaning me, and a pair of pearl and diamond earrings from my step-mom. Luckily, my aunt was still at the house when I remembered, and she came to the rescue and brought the jewelry. It’s not just me; many brides frequently overlook small but essential details, especially if these items aren’t stored with the dress.
✨ Pro Tip:
Create a checklist of accessories, including earrings, necklaces, bracelets, hairpieces, garters, and even your "something old, something new." Pack them together days before the wedding to avoid any last-minute scrambling.
Chargers for Phones and Devices
While you’ll be mostly unplugged as you savor every moment, having a fully charged phone is essential for last-minute updates, calls, or emergencies. Unfortunately, phone and camera chargers are an often-overlooked necessity!
✨Brandt 1910 Bonus: When you book with Brandt 1910, we have you covered with plenty of extra iPhone and Android chargers on hand for you and your wedding party.
Nice Hangers for Your Dress
You’ve invested in a beautiful gown, so don’t hang it on a cheap plastic hanger for those all-important photos! Many brides overlook the need for a good-quality, aesthetic hanger that complements their dress.
✨ Pro Tip: Purchase or DIY a wooden or acrylic hanger. Personalize it with your name or wedding date for an added touch. At Brandt 1910, our many photo spots provides gorgeous backdrops for hanging dress photos, ensuring every detail shines.
Cake Topper
That stunning wedding cake deserves an equally eye-catching topper. Whether you choose to add initials, figurines, or fresh flowers, the topper supplies that finishing touch. Forgetting it, however, leaves the cake looking incomplete.
✨Brandt 1910 Bonus: When you book an All Inclusive package with Brandt 1910, our wedding cake designer can help you pick out the perfect cake topper, and your cake accent flowers are included!
Reserved Seating Signs
Reserved seating ensures VIPs like parents, grandparents, and bridal party members have designated spots. However, signage is often forgotten until it’s time to seat guests, leading to unnecessary stress or confusion.
✨Brandt 1910 Bonus: Just tell us how many seats on either side of the aisle to reserve and we will take care of the signage for you!
And, don’t forget to let your VIPs know where their seats are so there’s no confusion when they get to the ceremony space.
Card Box for Gifts
Your guests want to shower you with well-wishes and cards, but without a card box, they might leave them scattered on tables or, worse, forget to hand them over entirely.
✨ Pro Tip: Choose a card box that fits your wedding theme, such as a rustic wooden box or a stylish acrylic design. Add signage so guests know where to drop their cards.
Group Photos with Family
Amid the whirlwind of your wedding day, formal family photos can easily be missed. Many brides regret not taking the time to gather their loved ones for group shots. Create a shot list of must-have combinations (e.g., bride and groom with grandparents, cousins, or siblings) and share it with your photographer and bridal party. And, remember to tell the people you want in the photos to stay after the ceremony for these important shots.
✨Brandt 1910 Bonus: Our historic venue offers countless photo-perfect spots to make every snapshot extraordinary.
Flat Shoes for the Reception
You’ve danced your first dance, posed for photos, and chatted with guests. By the time the reception kicks off, those gorgeous heels may feel less like a celebration and more like torture.
✨ Pro Tip: Pack a comfy pair of flats or sneakers to change into as the party gets going. For rustic weddings at Brandt 1910, opt for stylish but practical shoes, like cowboy boots that can handle the countryside charm.
Plan Your Stress-Free Wedding at Brandt 1910
When it comes down to it, all of your planning, the small details, and the personalized touches are nothing without the love you and your partner have for one another. Don’t let the small things get in the way of remembering what it is all for; an everlasting commitment to one another. But if you do forget something, Brandt 1910 is here to help you enjoy every little detail of your special day, and we won’t let something small get in the way of making your day everything you dreamed of. We’re here to help you remember the small things. With a rustic flair and modern amenities, our venue is perfect for Texas brides seeking charm, history, and personalized elegance.
Have questions or looking for more wedding planning tips? Contact our expert team or schedule a tour of our venue today.
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