Alternative Wedding Traditions to Use on Your Big Day in Wallis Texas
Photos in this Post by: Veil and Vow Photography
With as many weddings as I see at Brandt 1910, I love seeing how couples put their own twist on wedding traditions, creating a celebration that truly reflects their unique love story. While classic wedding staples are rooted in history and sentiment, that doesn’t mean you can’t put your own spin on them.
If you’re looking to create a modern, personalized celebration that stands out, we’ve rounded up five classic wedding traditions and their unique alternatives. From bubble boys to experience registries, these ideas will help you break tradition without losing its meaning.
And if you’re hosting your big day at Brandt 1910, a charming, sophisticated wedding venue near Fulshear, Texas, these alternatives will blend perfectly with the historic yet personalized ambiance we provide.
How to Revamp the Flower Girl Tradition with Bubble Boys
Why We Love the Tradition
The flower girl sprinkling petals down the aisle is an age-old Texas wedding custom representing fertility, innocence, and the hope for a fruitful union. It’s an adorable moment that never fails to warm everyone's hearts. However, if you're looking for a unique and playful twist to this tradition, or if you simply want to incorporate more of your precious nieces and nephews into your big day, we have just the thing for you.
The Modern Wedding Alternative
Why not have bubble boys instead? This fun update to the tradition keeps the playful essence but adds a bit of personality and humor. Imagine young family members or even your closest friends walking down the aisle, blowing bubbles or launching bubble blasters instead of scattering petals. The sparkling bubbles will create make for a whimsical atmosphere in your ceremony while offering a unique twist to tradition. My sons played this part at my sister’s wedding, and I may be a tad bit biased, but it was absolutely adorable!
At Brandt 1910: The spacious outdoor garden at Brandt 1910 is perfect for bubble boys to shine. The natural sunlight streaming through Texas trees will make those bubbles glisten beautifully in your photos.
Replace the Wedding Registry with a Houston Area Experience Registry
Why We Love the Tradition
Wedding gift registries have been a long-standing way for loved ones to help the newlyweds start their lives together. Traditionally filled with household essentials, registries symbolized the couple building a home together.
The Modern Alternative
Today, many couples already have the basics, so why not replace traditional gifts with an experience registry? Your guests can gift you unforgettable experiences, like tickets to your dream concert, a weekend getaway, or dinner at that Michelin-starred restaurant you've been eyeing.
At Brandt 1910: Our venue partners with local vendors near Fulshear, Texas, who can help curate unique experiences based right here in the Lone Star State. Your registry could include a romantic horseback ride or a wine-tasting tour in the rolling Texan countryside.
Experience Registry Recommendations
- Zola
Zola makes it simple for couples to include experience-based items in their wedding registry. From honeymoon funds to unique activities, such as cooking classes or guided tours, Zola offers plenty of options to make memories that last a lifetime.
- Honeyfund
Honeyfund is perfect for those who want to focus on experiences, whether it’s funding a dream honeymoon or adding specific adventures like scuba diving, spa days, or fine dining experiences. This platform lets your guests contribute directly to your dream activities with ease.
✨Pro Tip: Ask your vendors if they’d be willing to give you a discount for offering an experience later in the year that you could include in your contract.
If I were creating an experience registry for things to do near Houston, Texas, I would include these for sure:
- A limo ride with Executive Limo Service to Capital Grill in the Galleria with personalized wines selected by their Sommelier, Rodrigo Mosquella. He’s the best!
- A family photo session with Heather Purvis Photography
- A gas card and a Visa gift card for a day-trip to Warrenton, Texas to shop for antiques and eat local cuisine in an old town.
Skip the Formal Dinner for Food Stations by Local Fulshear Caterers
Why We Love the Tradition
Formal seated and buffet dinners bring an elegant, structured feel to wedding receptions, allowing guests to enjoy a planned multi-course meal. Traditionally, this format offered an opportunity to thank guests through a timeless dining experience.
The Custom Wedding Alternative
Swap the formal dinner for interactive food stations spread throughout the venue. Popular options include taco bars, build-your-own pasta stations, or even live-action chef experiences like sushi rolling or stir fry. This setup allows guests to mingle freely, sample various dishes, and tailor their meals to their tastes.
At Brandt 1910: The versatile event spaces at Brandt 1910 are ideal for positioning multiple food stations. The rustic, 4,000 square-foot ballroom and beautiful outdoor garden provide ample room for guests to explore delicious fare in a lively and inviting environment.
Food Station Ideas for Your Special Day
Here are some delightful food station options to consider for your wedding celebration at Brandt 1910:
- Charcuterie & Cheese Station: A curated selection of fine cheeses, cured meats, artisanal crackers, and seasonal fruits for a sophisticated touch.
- Build-Your-Own Taco Bar: Featuring a variety of proteins, toppings, and sauces, allowing your guests to craft their perfect taco.
- Gourmet Slider Station: Mini-burgers with an assortment of buns, patties, and toppings to please every palate.
- Pasta Action Station: A live chef preparing pasta dishes on-demand with a choice of sauces, proteins, and veggies for a personalized meal.
- Seafood Station: Fresh oysters, shrimp cocktails, and smoked salmon to add a luxurious element to the menu. My recommendation for this would be either local Fulshear restaurant, Pier 36 Seafood and Oyster Bar or Aphrodite Oysters.
- Asian Fusion Station: Dumplings, sushi rolls, and stir-fry dishes created live for a vibrant culinary experience.
- Sweet Treats Station: An array of desserts like mini tarts, cupcakes, and chocolate-dipped fruits for those with a sweet tooth.
- S'mores Bar: A whimsical station where guests can toast marshmallows and assemble their own s'mores for a nostalgic treat.
- Coffee & Tea Bar: A cozy beverage station featuring specialty coffees, teas, and toppings like whipped cream, syrups, and spices. Local Katy and Fulshear favorite, Humble Grounds, does a fantastic job of this!
At Brandt 1910: Our team will help you design and arrange these food stations to blend seamlessly into the timeless charm of the venue, ensuring that your guests are delighted by both the menu and the ambiance.
Break Wedding Tradition: See Each Other Before the Ceremony with a First Look
Why We Love the Wedding Tradition
Tradition dictates that the couple should avoid seeing each other before walking down the aisle, rooted in the old belief of bringing bad luck. Today, it adds an exciting layer of suspense and surprise during the ceremony. I personally love this and feel it brings in an added moment of excitement, but there’s an alternative for those who want to make this moment a little more private.
The Modern Wedding Alternative
Many modern couples are breaking this tradition with a private “first look” moment before the ceremony. It not only takes some edge off pre-wedding nerves but also creates an intimate opportunity to share emotions and take candid photos together away from the crowd. I’ve even seen where couples exchange their private vows during this moment, and it does feel extra special, and I know the bride and groom feel they can truly say what is on their hearts.
At Brandt 1910: Picture this special moment unfolding on the private balcony of our groom's room overlooking the garden or framed by the historic beauty of our bridal suite. With the ambient charm of this rustic wedding venue near Fulshear, your first look will feel both intimate and magical.
Skip the Traditional Garter Toss and Get Guests in the Action with a Personalized Alternative
Why We Love the Tradition
The garter toss symbolizes luck and fertility, with eager single guests vying for the garter as part of a playful superstition. While it’s fun for some, this tradition doesn’t always resonate with modern couples and guests. Many couples at Brandt 1910 simply skip out on this moment in their reception altogether, but I love it when couples have something else to get their guests involved in their big day using creative alternatives.
Creative Wedding Reception Alternatives
Opt for custom guest-participation activities instead! A dance-off, scavenger hunt, or even a game (like the Newlywed Game) are all great ways to include everyone without singling out individuals or making anyone feel awkward. These moments bring energy and joy to your reception while keeping the spotlight on your love story.
At Brandt 1910: With versatile spaces indoors and outdoors, Brandt 1910 is perfect for hosting fun, guest-friendly activities. Picture a dance-off in the ballroom with glow sticks lighting up the night, followed by a hilarious round of the "newlywed game" to keep everyone laughing and engaged. Use our 15 Foot Projector Screen to make sure everyone can see the answers and be in on the fun.
Celebrate Your Way at Brandt 1910
Whether you choose to replace a formal wedding dinner with personalized food stations or swap traditional customs for modern twists like bubble boys, Brandt 1910 provides the perfect backdrop for your unique wedding day.
Located just outside Fulshear, Texas, our venue offers the historic charm and rustic beauty that make every custom celebration feel timeless and unforgettable. From our spacious ballroom to beautifully manicured outdoor spaces, you’ll find endless possibilities to bring your creative wedding ideas to life.
Start planning your dream day today. Contact us to book a tour or learn more about how we can turn these alternative traditions into a reality at Brandt 1910.
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