Fulshear Brides: Avoid Having These 10 Wedding Day Regrets
Photos in this Post by: Always Photogenic Photography (unless otherwise noted)
About 50 percent of our brides at Brandt 1910 are getting married for the second time. They did the over-the-top wedding the first time and are looking for something more personal this go around. These brides learned from their lessons and are making changes that every bride can benefit from. Plus, I can tell you, from an insider’s perspective, how these changes worked for a better wedding experience.
To help you avoid those "if only I had known" moments, we’ve compiled the top 10 wedding day regrets brides commonly experience, along with tips on how to sidestep them. Plus, we’ll highlight how choosing a venue like Brandt 1910, one of the best wedding venues near Fulshear, Texas, can help minimize these regrets.
This guide will walk you through what to look for in a wedding caterer, how to find the best options near you, and why the All-Inclusive wedding package at Brandt 1910, with catering by Pier 36 Seafood and Oyster Bar, is my recommended choice for the perfect bite for your special day.
1. Inviting Too Many Guests
One of the most common wedding regrets is inviting more people than you can realistically accommodate or personally connect with on your big day. Overcrowding your guest list can lead to a higher budget, unnecessary stress, and less intimate moments.
How to Avoid This
Be intentional with your guest list. Think quality over quantity. Focus on inviting the people who mean the most to you, rather than feeling obligated to include distant acquaintances or co-workers you might not care to see again if you move jobs. Brandt 1910’s elegant ballroom and whimsical garden can comfortably host up to 150 guests, offering the perfect balance between intimacy and scale.
2. Not Hiring a Professional Photographer
Weddings are a once-in-a-lifetime event, and skimping on a professional photographer is a decision many regret. Uncle Bob’s snapshots, while well-meaning, might not capture the magic like a seasoned pro could. Unlike those favors you’ll never see again, your wedding day photos will last you a lifetime of memories that you can look back on. Take it from me, do not skimp on this essential element of your big day and hire someone you can trust to capture the moments you’ll want to look back on.
How to Avoid This
Invest in a talented, professional photographer with a style that matches your vision. Many photographers rave about the natural lighting and endless textured walls at Brandt 1910, which provide incredible backdrops for stunning photos. One Google reviewer shared, “The venue is such a beautiful building and atmosphere. It had such a vintage feel to the place that you can have great photos taken anywhere in the building."
If you’re having trouble finding a photographer or don’t know where to start, ask your venue for recommendations. I love working with photographers that have been to Brandt 1910 previously and I have been able to see their work. Always Photogenic and Emerald Aisle Studios are two of my all-time favorite wedding photography groups that take stunning photos of weddings at Brandt 1910.
3. Not Building in Enough Time
A tight schedule can leave no room to soak in the moment or handle unexpected delays. Rushing between the ceremony and reception can quickly diminish your enjoyment.
How to Avoid This
Build a cushion of extra time throughout your schedule to allow for relaxed transitions or pick a venue that allows you to have your ceremony and reception in one place. Choosing a venue like Brandt 1910, which offers a centralized location and ample prep space, can significantly reduce hustle and stress.
Brandt 1910 Bonus: When you book with Brandt 1910, you get exclusive usage of the venue for the whole day, so you won’t feel rushed or worried about crowding in on someone else’s plans. For most weddings, we also allow you to set up the day before and pick up personal belongings the day after, so you or someone from your wedding party isn’t rushing around at the end of the night trying to organize and grab everything on your way out.
Photo by Lisa on Location
4. Wearing Uncomfortable Shoes
While those sparkling heels might be showstoppers, many brides regret choosing style over comfort when their feet start throbbing halfway through the celebration. I’ve seen countless shoes discarded at the end of the night and even a few left behind!
How to Avoid This
Go for comfort without compromising on style. Many brides now bring a second pair of comfortable, chic flats for the reception. And don’t forget to test-wear your shoes beforehand to break them in!
Photo by Willow Birch Photography
5. Not Hiring a Professional DJ or Emcee
Music sets the tone for your wedding, and an experienced DJ and emcee ensures that your guests are engaged and that the schedule flows seamlessly. Underestimating this can lead to awkward silences, missed cues, or less energy on the dance floor.
How to Avoid This
Hire a professional with experience running weddingss. Many DJs love working with the layout and acoustics at Brandt 1910, ensuring everyone from your elderly relatives to young guests enjoys the playlist. I always recommend The Deluxe DJS. Serving the Greater Houston Area, Jose and his team work with you before your big day and ensure that you have everything you need for a fantastic event. While Brandt 1910 does offer a house sound system with microphones, I always recommend getting a professional DJ and Emcee for our wedding clients. A professional DJ will keep your wedding timeline and ensure the music your hear is on brand and on time with what you have envisioned.
Photo by TVC Weddings
6. Spending on Guest Favors
While personalized wedding favors might seem like a thoughtful touch, they often go unnoticed, forgotten, or left behind by guests. Brides frequently regret spending that portion of their budget on items that don’t add much value to the occasion. That being said, I have seen some amazing to-it yourself favors that guests have walked away with so if this is something important to you, go for it!
How to Avoid This
Skip the trinkets and redirect that budget toward memorable experiences, like a photo booth or late-night snacks. Focus on creating moments, not merch.
8. Not Having a Backup Plan for Extreme Weather
Outdoor weddings can be dreamy, but they come with risks. Weather surprises, from scorching heat to sudden storms, can make things uncomfortable or even unmanageable.
How to Avoid This
Choose a venue with flexible indoor and outdoor spaces to accommodate any scenario. Brandt 1910 provides both an elegant indoor ballroom and a stunning outdoor garden, offering peace of mind no matter the forecast.
9. Not Having a Private Area for the Bridal Party
Weddings are high-energy events, and many brides regret not having a private, quiet space to retreat to for a moment of calm. Make sure the area that is designated for the bride is not a shared space, office, or public bathroom.
How to Avoid This
Ensure your venue provides a comfortable getting-ready suite, like the one at Brandt 1910, where the bridal party can relax, touch up makeup, and take a breather before and during the event. And, don’t forget the groom! He might not need as much time to get ready but he’ll appreciate a space he can leave his personal belongings and hang out with his friends while the final touches are taking place in the ceremony and reception spaces.
Brandt 1910 Bonus: Grooms at Brandt 1910 enjoy a large ready suite complete with on-suite bathroom, large Smart TV, and outdoor patio space that is accessible without having to walk past the bridal suite.
10. Stressing Over the Small Stuff
From mismatched napkins to minor delays, sweating the small stuff is a regret almost every bride can relate to. These little details pale in comparison to the big picture. Make sure you get married in an environment that lends itself to calm.
How to Avoid This
Focus on the joy of marrying your partner and celebrating with your loved ones. Choose a venue like Brandt 1910, where an experienced team takes the stress of planning off your shoulders, allowing you to savor every moment. We truly want your day to be stress free and we care about every single bride that walks down the aisle at our venue. This will be one of the happiest days of your life and I love getting to be a part of it.
Celebrate Without Regrets
Your wedding day is about love, joy, and creating memories that last a lifetime. By learning from the experiences of past brides, my own observations, and following these tips, you can avoid many of the common missteps that lead to regrets. And remember, choosing the right venue plays a huge role in setting the stage for a flawless, unforgettable celebration.
At Brandt 1910, we’re passionate about making dream weddings a reality. With our breathtaking spaces, expert team, and glowing reviews, it’s no surprise couples across Fulshear, Texas, call us the perfect wedding venue.
Plan your wedding with confidence. Contact us today to schedule a tour and discover why Brandt 1910 is the ideal choice for your big day!
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